Establishing a Meditation Habit in 60 Seconds per Day (or Less!)

Hello friends! It’s Mental Health Awareness Month, and while behind-the-scenes posts usually cover some aspect of how HabitRPG, Inc. runs as a company, I’ve had several conversations with both friends and business contacts about how I established my meditation practice. It’s been a stressful year in a lot of ways, and meditation plays a critical role in making sure I don’t run out screaming into the night, never to return. This post is for those of you who’ve added a “Meditation” daily to your Habitica tasks, but haven’t quite managed to make it stick. Without further ado….


Why meditate? An introduction:

Before getting deep into the “how,” let’s begin with the “why.” There’s plenty out there about the benefits of meditation and why you should start. Wikipedia has an overview, the Buffer blog has an excellent post breaking down some of the physiological effects of a meditation practice, and finally, Chade Meng Tan’s book, Search Inside Yourself, covers a lot of the science and applications of a mindfulness based stress reduction practice, particularly in the workplace.

Some benefits that I’ve experienced personally since establishing a regular meditation practice:

  • I can offset the effects of sleep deprivation if I take time to meditate, i.e. if I should have gotten 90 minutes more sleep, taking 20 minutes or so to observe my breathing helps balance out some of the crankiness and the tendency to overreact to things.
  • It’s easier for me to recognize when my brain is basically a barrel of monkeys and take action to mitigate it or redirect my attention towards high-energy, low-cognitive load tasks.
  • I’m better at engaging with people and being patient with them even as my first reaction is a negative one, like irritation, or annoyance. (Not perfect, but improved.)

For the remainder of this post I’ll be operating under the assumption that you know meditation is a thing, and you want to do that thing! Only you haven’t quite yet cracked the “how” of it and the daily is starting to go dark red.

The “How” of Meditating:

There are plenty of different types of meditation. Here, I focus on mindfulness meditation. (Technically, “mindfulness based stress reduction” pioneered for the secular corporate world by people like Jon Kabat-Zinn. Whatever title works for you!)

Basic Technique: Make yourself comfortable, whether standing, seated, or lying down. Focus on your breath. You know how to breathe! Keep breathing. That’s all: one breath in, one breath out.

Too simple to be true? Yes, in a way–when it comes down to it, a breath isn’t necessarily a straightforward thing.

  • It has stages: when you inhale, when you hit the top of your inhale for a split second before pushing all the air out of your lungs, when you exhale, when you hit bottom of the breath but aren’t ready to inhale yet.
  • It has qualities: the temperature of the ambient air. The speed at which you’re breathing. Whether you’re inhaling through both nostrils equally, or one side more than the other (hooray, allergies). If your breath hits the back of your throat, or hovers somewhere above the roof of your mouth.
  • It has physiological effects: If you’re breathing too fast, you get lightheaded (and maybe should slow down a bit). Your chest may raise and lower, or your belly.

While you’re in a meditation session, you want to pay attention to your breath. I think of meditation as “dedicated time to get better at feeling myself breathe” and spend my session trying to pay attention to the above sensations.


One breath in, one breath out.


Repeat as necessary.


Next level:

I’m going to assume you managed the aforementioned just fine. If that’s all you need, you can stop reading here and count it as a session! For others, that’s not enough–you don’t feel like you’re meditating yet. Keep reading.

One full breath-cycle of an inhale/exhale takes me about 10 seconds. It might take you longer, or you may breathe faster and require less time. In any case, you can manage a focused meditation session of one breath-cycle now, so your next stage is 3 cycles of breathing and breathing out. Doable, yes?

Now you’re ready for a minute-long meditation session. This is usually where people start feeling a bit daunted, especially if they’ve been trying and failing to build a sustained meditation practice. But if you think about it, a minute breaks down into roughly 5 or 6 cycles. My suggestion, when you’re at this level, is to use a timer–I like Calm, which is beautiful and has timers available in a web browser at : or in their apps for iOS and Android. But you can really use any timer of your choice. I personally gravitate towards soft bells to announce the end of a session, but there are plenty of other options.

Remember, the technique is: one breath in, one breath out.

Then repeat 4-8 times, however many breath-cycles it takes for the 1 minute timer to ring.

If you’re human (I hope you’re human! I’m pretty sure I’m not qualified to talk about how meditation works for non-humans) your brain is going to be bouncing all over the place like kittens being lined up for a photograph.

Don’t worry; that’s normal. Just notice it–and by “notice it” basically do the mental equivalent of nodding at someone in the hall like “oh hey, I see you” and continue on to your business. In this case, your business is BREATHING LIKE A CHAMP. (Seriously. Not dead? YOU WIN AT BREATHING.)

When the timer goes off, that’s it! Congratulations, you’ve completed a 1 minute meditation session. That’s really all you need to build the habit–a spare sixty seconds per day to ride your breath.

Moving beyond the 1 minute meditation session

At this point, you’re either nicely settled into the 1 minute meditations and feeling like you could take on more time because the sessions are too short, or you find yourself wondering when the timer will go off. There are a couple of different choices you could make here, all of which are equally valid:

  1. If you feel ready for more time, increment the session length. Calm’s timer intervals go 1, 2, 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30 minutes (…etc. Calm also does an 8 hour timed meditation that I suspect is more for sleep than for actual meditation). Consider this the “check-in” method. Doesn’t matter if you managed to have a focused session or you find yourself ten million miles away when the bell chimes. I have seen comments like “It’s called meditation _practice_, not meditation perfect” which is kind of a dad joke but also true.
  2. If you keep thinking “are we done yet?” try replacing the timer with a stopwatch. That is, instead of having something count down from an arbitrary period of time, have it count up–and give yourself permission to finish your session when you feel done. This was a trick I used to get myself to sit for my first sessions that were longer than 10 minutes. It is also useful because it lets you get a feel for what the best sessions could be like, when you get into the flow of returning to the breath and aren’t worrying about when the timer will go off.
  3. Try the stopwatch, but with intermediary chimes. Calm has an “open ended meditation” feature that lets you choose intervals for a bell to chime. The intervals are useful reminders to check in on where you are–are you watching your breath? (In my case, hardly ever–and the chimes are a cue for me to get back on track.) However, Calm’s intervals are set at 2 minute lengths. If 2 minutes is too long, Spotify (free!) has an album that does 10 minute sessions in shorter intervals:


Troubleshooting your meditation session:

Posture: Classical meditation has the practitioner sitting cross-legged, often on a pillow. If you can do that, great! If you can’t, great! You can also meditate while sitting in a normal chair, which helps decrease the likelihood that you’ll finish your meditation session and realize that your feet have fallen asleep. If you have terrible posture and sitting for meditation causes you stress, try lying down and doing your session that way! (I usually assume the corpse pose from yoga: feet relaxed apart from each other, hands a little ways out from the body with palms facing skyward, chin relaxed but lifted for easy breathing.)

Falling Asleep: Sometimes you might drift off while sitting quietly. If it’s chronic sleep deprivation, consider whether or not your time might be better spent sleeping rather than meditating. If you choose to tackle meditation, ramp up your sitting times slowly, or rely on the frequency bells as an outside reminder to bring your attention back to your breath.

It happens to the best of us. Fanart by Promsien (deviantArt)

All the monkeys in the brain: normal. Carry on as before: note that there are monkeys, then refocus on the breath.

A word on habit-building:

These days I meditate much the same way I drink water: usually at the beginning and end of the day, plus when I feel like I need to. To incorporate a regular meditation session into your routine, it’s easiest to schedule it before or after something you already do regularly–after sitting up in bed, before you log on to your computer, or after a meal. Don’t forget to reward yourself afterwards! Perhaps by checking off your “Meditation” Daily in Habitica?

What are your strategies for making meditation work for you? We’d love to hear them!


25 thoughts on “Establishing a Meditation Habit in 60 Seconds per Day (or Less!)

  1. Cory

    I love the meditation feature on the fitbit charge 2. It allows me to take the timer with me anywhere and having the circle to look at expanding and contracting helps to calm down the monkeys in my brain. I don’t really worry about meditating every day though. I meditate when I feel stressed, tired, unfocused, or just need to think deeply about something for a little while. This article is making me think about adding meditation to my daily task list though. Is there a benefit to meditating every day as opposed to whenever you feel like it?


    1. redphoenix

      Hi Cory, excellent question! I’m not sure that there’s been a lot of research on meditation practices that aren’t daily or near-daily, since it’s a relatively new area of study. For me, meditation falls under self-care the same way showering and exercise do–probably nothing’s going to happen if you only do it as necessary, but a predictable routine helps balance out the chaos of modern life. If not every day, maybe once a week as designated monkey-soothing time?

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      1. Actually yes, it does, Matthieu Ricard a french monk, did work with scientist about meditation. And i saw like maybe 2 years ago a documentary on Arte a french tv channel, about the effect of meditation, and as the same ways staying 20 minutes on the computer everyday changer the composition of our brain. Meditation do the same, it really change how the brain is rearrange ! Doing it daily is as useful as doing physical exercise everybody. Your body will change.


    2. gina van sunsword

      Hey Cory. I agree with redphoenix. Plus: In my experience I start my day more stress-resistable and focused when havin meditated (and I add some streching/moving too). I get much more easy into ”flow” during the day.
      Also I like to compare it with sports or art … daily excercise allows you to get faster and deeper into the calmness. It’s writing itself into your daily-routine-state-of-mind like a subroutine that may support you.


  2. Excellent tips. I use Insight Timer for setting up custom bell intervals. It’s also got over 5000 guided meditations, which are useful. The stats and streak function should also resonate with Habitica users (I’m currently on 132 consecutive days with a session). It’s completely free, too. No ads or upselling. Great app.

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    1. redphoenix

      Thanks for the Insight Timer recommendation, Charles! Sounds like there’s a lot of flexibility with their feature set that could be quite helpful.


  3. buriedinprint

    Thanks for the links to the timers. I’ve been looking for a way to transition to this as a daily practice. I used to just do yoga occasionally and never really found the benefits were enough of an incentive to keep with it, but once I shifted to doing it every day, I was able to understand why other people were calling it a practice, so I’m guessing that meditation is like that too. My challenge is breaking it down into a small enough starting point to make the habit stick, but a one-minute timer? Yeah, I can do that.


    1. redphoenix

      You’re welcome! And yes, breaking any habit down small enough is tough because we often feel silly that we’re not doing more. But it definitely makes new, different goals seem less intimidating and more within our reach to achieve 🙂


  4. Great tips. Thank you! 🙂

    (I even managed–just barely–to avoid laughing at myself, which is a perennial problem for me with this kind of thing… My monkeys are strange monkeys.)


    1. redphoenix

      Your monkeys are clearly very self-conscious monkeys and probably related to my monkeys. (I have never been able to listen to guided meditations without at least one monkey raising an eyebrow and hooting in derision.)


  5. Dec

    Recently I’ve started up a meditation thing, and mostly it’s been just choosing a song on the radio, closing my eyes, and counting my breaths in-out, 1-2, on repeat until the song ends.

    Mind you, I’m usually taking the bus places, and have the radio on anyways. It’s more of something to do to fill the dead air and get the habit going while waiting.


  6. Ali

    These are brilliant tips, thank you! I’d been considering meditation for a while but I didn’t really know where to start so I didn’t. I tried it tonight using your tips and it was great! I’ve added it in as a daily. I just wanted to add two things that I noticed tonight. If you’re in a place with people (I’m visiting my parents atm) tell them what you’re up to and politely ask them to shut up. Brain monkeys are harder to deal with when there are people nattering upstairs. Also, if you’re using Calms in your browser? Turn your laptop sound on. It helps with hearing the bell (yes, yes I am daft!). But seriously, thanks for giving me an idea of how to get started.


  7. Excellent post! I’m 62 days straight on my meditation daily – feeling proud 🙂 Moved from Calm to Insight Timer at the start of the year, liking it more. They have a 365 day challenge with a new selected guided meditation every day, introducing you to chanting, mantras, visualisation, etc etc, which is really keeping my attention. Plus, soooo many stats and graphs, which hit all my buttons 🙂 They also started with a 20-day build from 1 minute to 20 minutes, which I thought was perfect.


    1. redphoenix

      Wow, congrats on the 62-day streak! That’s quite a habit you got going 🙂 You’re also the second person to recommend Insight Timer. So glad you’ve found it to work for you!


  8. Ria

    I’ve got a question about the breathing: is it normal that I start to breath differently (deeper) as soon as I concentrate on the act of breathing? Am I supposed to breath deeper during meditation?
    Also, I downloaded Calm and the breathing cycle it has there for 10 seconds says to hold your breath for a bit. Do you also recommend that?


    1. redphoenix

      Hi Ria, I don’t know about “normal” but I definitely seem to breath more deeply and with more intention once I start concentrating on it. I would just do what feels natural to you–you’ve been breathing for years already, so there’s not really a right or wrong here.

      For Calm’s breathing cycle–I’m sure it works for some people, but trying to enforce my breathing patterns to comply with someone else’s concept of “proper” breathing has definitely caused more stress than has reduced it. Try it out and see if it works for you. If not, don’t worry too much about it.


  9. It is true that meditation is a great remedial solution for all diseases, makes the body more flexible, helps in living the stress-free life, enrich with the positive attitude, and is the best solution for asleep patients.


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